Hello all and welcome to our new blog. Here you'll be able to keep up with our adoption process as we update it realtime while in Russia. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers as we go on this life changing journey.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Not taking No for an answer!

Jason contacted Cabinet Secretary for the New Mexico Department of Veterans Services, Timothy Hale today. He is a retired Talon C-130 pilot!! (that is the plane that Jason flies on)
Jason explained to him that the CYFD is not willing to do what it takes for our family to adopt and Secretary Hale is on fire to do whatever he can to help us!!! 
The CYFD is essentially shutting down Russian adoptions for New Mexico residents. We are going to fight this!! Keep praying!!

Monday, April 25, 2011

The rest of the story...

I have written before that there were becoming a lot of questions and concerns with the Ukraine program.  

With these new changes, we have been keeping our eyes open to other options. Meanwhile we were getting ready to move into our new home. The military gave us a 1 story/4 bedroom home just down the road from our old house to accommodate our growing family. On the same day that we received the keys to move in I received an email from Rainbowkids (an organization that assists in getting waiting children adopted). I receive emails from them often and most of the time I just pray for the children. Sometimes I will tell Jason about one and he will say "Yes Shannon, he/she is very cute, but NO". Well this time he told me to call the agency and get information about this precious baby girl!! So I did. 

After talking with Terri from the agency we found ourselves hoping that this would be our child. After 3 days of waiting she told us that out of several families who had inquired about this little girl, our family could now move forward with the adoption. We could not believe it!! What happened next was just amazing. We were without intranet, had to finish setting up our new home for pictures/social worker to approve our home for a new child, do all of our dossier paperwork and redo our home study to reflect all the changes, all in 3 days. Terri wanted it all done by Wednesday. In that time I was crying and on my knees praying for God to move mountains, and he did.

God put an army of people around us to help. Some helped move, some set up our new home, some helped clean our old house and our amazing social worker stayed up late and came over early to get our home study done in time. Jason's boss even took his place as work so that Jason could be home to get paperwork and everything else done!!

Everything happened so fast, we were just exhausted and on our knees praying for strength. One thing that we have been learning about God lately is that he dose not keep His will a secret that we have to search for. He gives us his word and wisdom to guide us and we can move forward boldly, trusting in His sovereignty in our lives and to give us the grace and strength that we need. So we did. We moved bold and fast trusting in His perfect plan. 

After 3 exhausting days and nights, crying and pleading with government agencies to get paperwork right and barely making each dead line, we finally finished our dossier and put it in the mail. On Thursday we received a call from Terri saying that the dossier was perfect but that we had a problem. The problem was that our home study agency was on the Russian "black list". This was not good news. Since then we have been exploring all options to see what our next step should be. 

What I am about to say is skipping a lot of detail but these are things we are praying for  (if this is our little girl) 
-we need the CYFD to comply with Russian adoption standard and to write us a letter with "international" wording in it. If they do comply, we can change our home study over to an agency that is not on the black list. 
-If they do not comply we will be waiting for the new "list" to come out and will be praying that our home study agency will not be on it. 

If either of these things can happen in a timely manner, we will be traveling to Moscow by June 1st and this will be our little girl. If not, we will still move forward with a Russian adoption but will be waiting for a new child through a different Russian agency. 

God is good and if we can trust him with our lives, we can trust Him with our adoption!! I pray for this sweet girl, I hope that she is mine and that we will be able to bring her home soon. Pray with us that God would once again move mountains!!!


Thursday, April 21, 2011

The Ways to Russia

This is going to be short...I am exhausted and can not write everything that has happened in the past week.  
It now looks like we will be adopting from Russia!! We are pursuing a baby girl!!! I know you are asking "what? Why? and How?" I promise I will tell you everything soon.
For now, please pray for our adoption. Pray for our hearts. Pray for our strength to run this race. Pray that God would strengthen us through this. Pray that we will rest in His love and grace. 
And pray that God would move mountains and our agency would not be on the "Black List"!!!!! So that we can bring her home!!!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Alert: Ukraine Adoption

It seems that President Yanukovych signed a Decree transferring all functions of, the State Department for Adoption (SDA-- the current central adoption authority of Ukraine), to the Ministry for Social Policy. It is too early to know exactly what this will mean for Ukraine adoption. It could mean many paperwork changes and/or long delays, possibly even a temporary shut down until this new authority has everything in place to take over. The entire adoption process could look different after this happens.  

Yulia (coordinator in Ukraine) has assured us that adoption as we know it will not be affected by this change for at least 2 months. She has submitted our dossier to the SDA and is hopeful that our family will receive an invitation to Ukraine soon to be able to get our child and be back in America before the affects of this change happen. 

This is now our prayer! Pray with us that God would put a hold on this transfer. That we would get an invitation very soon. And that He would lead us directly to our child. That we would spend minimal time in country and be back home before this transfer takes place.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Can't Sleep...

We found out that Isabelle is not available for us to pursue. Our agency said that a family is in the process of adopting her. I thank God that he is providing a family for her and pray that they will be able to go get her soon!! I am so grateful for adoption and that this little girl will no longer be an orphan!!

I long for our child. My heart aches to be able to have a face to go along with this longing. I pray for the day to come soon, that we will be able to hold him or her, kiss away any tears and have our child home. 
I thank God that when I am week, He is strong.